At home at the weekend, I heard the lyrics of "young and promising": if I am young and promising, I don't feel inferior and know what is precious. I'm sorry that I didn't give you those dreams. "
Listen to listen, unconsciously opened the comment area, while drawing those stories, while thinking: when we were young, everyone's life, there will be regret.
The most impressive message I remember was this:
"The year I met her, she accompanied me from three rounds of barbecue stand, without complaining bitterly. Later, we rented a barbecue shop. Five years later, we always believe that as long as two people work hard, life will be better and better.
Young and frivolous, in order to buy a house and marry her as soon as possible, I listened to my friend's so-called investment, but I didn't want to spend all my assets overnight. After I was drunk, I went crazy and smashed the rental house, which made her angry.
We haven't seen each other since.
I'm happy to hear that she's getting married today. She's finally made it. "
When I finished reading this paragraph written by the boy, I felt very sad. We have said "cherish" thousands of times, but we are still caught off guard by "losing".
Love begins with beauty, falls into talent and is loyal to character; at last, it is tired of time, broken down by material and defeated by reality.
It seems that it is always playing tricks on us, for a moment that it will be forever. But the next second, I feel that "forever" is really far away from us.
We can't say that love is fragile, because in fact, in the most difficult time, that person never left you.
You've been through the ups and downs together, and you've been fighting against the hardships of life together. At that time, because of love, so nothing was afraid.
But it's sunny after the rain, but you're alone. And that kind of desolation with regret, it is difficult to say the pain.
After all, the most painful thing is not "never owned", but "almost can".
I suddenly found out that a couple I was concerned about had not been updated for a long time. A few days ago, two people finally appeared together, but told everyone that they had broken up.
Even as spectators, we can see how difficult it is to make this decision. After all, it was a four-year relationship, from nothing to economic freedom. The two men had planned to talk about marriage, and had imagined their own home.
But when everything starts to get better, they can't love anymore.
I remember that in the middle of the video, the girl cried and the boy stretched out his sleeve to wipe her tears.
What a gentle detail, but it can only stop there.
They must have experienced a scene like this a million times. Just this time, it's different from the past.
The boy said in the video that he was reluctant to part with her, and his heart seemed to be poached away. In the past, we were together almost every day, but there was no suitable reason to meet later.
The girl said that they will not make up, there are many unsolvable problems between the two people. Each other has tried hard, but the knot really can not be eliminated.
Anyway, I think it's a pity that they have had so many sweet and happy times. Both of them regard each other as the most intimate people in their lives and engrave each other in their own hearts.
It's so close that they can get married.
But also because, just a little bit less, they want to change from lovers to passers-by.
And we also have to admit that growing up is like this. We need to say goodbye to ourselves again and again.
I think of a paragraph: the most sad moment must not be when you love and can not, but you understand that you and this person really have no future.
After he gave you, did not give you, will give to another person, and you do not even have the qualification to blush.
In your heart, there must be a person who says to put it down, but can't forget it.
You've been through the wind, the rain, the snow, and the sun on each other's shoulders;
You have been to the most popular online restaurant to punch in. You know that he likes spicy food, and he also knows that you don't like coriander;
You once crowded in 800 yuan a month's rental house, fantasizing about the future home together;
You have a rare tacit understanding. You ask, "are you there?" and he will say, "I miss you too.".
These trivial and beautiful moments have really happened, but it does not affect the fact that you end up making a lot of trouble because of so little things.
Yeah, just a little bit closer, and you'll be together for the rest of your life.
But the more experience you have, the more you know that love is never what you want. There are too many factors to decide whether we can go on or not. Any one of them is very powerless.
Therefore, there is no need to blame who, the wrong is in, in the wrong time, met the right person.
In fact, the separation and combination of love is very common. Life is trial and error, love and miss, you still have to continue to live.
No matter how the outcome of the two people, as long as the past to pay a sincere, frank, trust, all their love and tenderness to each other, that is enough.
I'd love to have a future with you, but we can only get here